wanted to share!

these roses are from my rose bush, there were more than half a dozen in bloom! they are soo beautiful! and then Sally got a new car. It is the focus that Vincent makes at his plant, who knows maybe he helped build hers. it has a chrome tail pipe, cool!

an adjustment

I am trying to adjust to school being out, to new schedules, to allowing my kids to become more independant, and still keeping my sanity. I believe the hardest years of raising a child is 16-18yrs old. no matter what, i would take feedings every 4 hours and some poopy diapers than trying to give up control and still maintain my sanity. but I know that this too shall pass and things will be fine. Vincent and I were just talking that we only need to raise them up right. To raise them to know Jesus and that they have their own faith. We must equip them with the necessary tools and when my child looks at me like I am stupid and he groans that I wont let them do something cause I know in my gut they shouldn't. Then I know I am doing the right thing. I will survive. I am just not sure how I will look when it all comes to an end! :0

to see or not to see

The da vinci code came out last week and i was wondering how many people have either seen it or are planning to see it. I read the book, and i preferred his other one called "Angels & Demons". This one was an interesting story to read too.

Now I did go and see the movie. My mom wanted to see it and I took her cause I personally did not see a problem in viewing the movie. First of all the movie is almost true to the book. There were a few differences but nothing to really matter. This is why I prefer to read the books and many times I do not watch the movies. My exceptions have been the Harry Potter's and the LOTR. Anyways, I found myself a little uncomfortable with the movie. I am still thinking about this and have not really come up with a conclusion. Just wanted to see what others have felt and thought! Have an awesome Memorial Weekend!

Congratulations to our newest graduate!!!!!!

find your wings by mark harris

It's only for a moment you are mine to hold
The plans that heaven has for you
Will all too soon unfold
So many different prayers I'll pray
For all that you might do
But most of all I'll want to know
You're walking in the truth
And If I never told you
I want you to know
As I watch you grow

Chorus:
I pray that God would fill your heart with dreams
And that faith gives you the courage
To dare to do great things
I'm here for you whatever this life brings
So let my love give you roots
And help you find your wings

May passion be the wind
That leads you through your days
And may conviction keep you strong
Guide you on your way
May there be many moments
That make your life so sweet
Oh, but more than memories

Chorus:

It's not living if you don't reach for the sky
I'll have tears as you take off
But I'll cheer as you fly

I cannot imagine that you are all grown up!! You have become a beautiful young lady! I am honored that you are my niece! Love you!

some pics i wanted to share

never had this problem before

I just signed on to my msn hotmail and two different messenger windows popped open. Okay? i did not see any of my contacts on. then i notice that it says that these two conversation windows are not from my contact list. i did not allow the conversation and i noticed that it said something like, hey i tried to get in touch with you last nite but couldn't. come and chat with me and it is all free. click here and then there was a link. i hate spam, and all that and now they can pop up on there. anyone else have this happen to them? last week i installed the parent control. but guess what i cannot not even go to the google home page or anything with that being installed. what is the point of that? so i disabled it. oh well i guess i just gotta be more alert on the web!

a human characteristic that i wish i could snap my fingers and change is

assuming! it is one trait that i cannot stand. i even have done it. i try not to do it. i am even getting so much better and stopping myself from doing it. people have told me that i am too nice cause i try to see everyone's side from a situation. i would assume. then one day something happened to me. not going to share what it was but from that day forward was the day i decided to try, key word here, try to stop assuming. i will try not to assume why someone does something i may find "different' than what i would do. i will try not to assume why people say things that i feel would not. i will try not to assume why someone responds to certain things that i would not. keep in mind the key word here is try! as for now i assume that you all will have a great day and enjoy the weather! it is beautiful out! ;)

Happy 62nd Birthday Dad!

for those of you who know my dad and knew his bday was last week........well, I guess his bday was changed to today. Yea I know we have been celebrating his bday for the past 62 years and then when he goes to get his ss they tell him no, your birthday is going to be on the 22 of may. not the 15th. Weirdos!

things that i think are a bother

but really they are blessings

1. a deck that I spent all day staining today
(blessings=I must have a place where i can have a deck and I had a body that was capable of staining the deck) (but ask me tomorrow how my back feels-ouch!)

2. had to peel and pit peaches for a school project for Kota
(blessings=I must live somewhere awesome where I can buy fresh peaches out of season and I must have money in my wallet since they were expensive!)

3. Cleaned out the garage! my nose is filled with dust!
(blessings= I have a place that has a garage and i must have lots of stuff to put in the garage)

basically you get the idea of what I did today. Tried to look at all the possible blessings in all the things I did not want to really do! ;)

Be Safe

It is graduation weekend and parties are upon us. Please, please drive safe and drive sober. Unfortunately, it is usually the other person, the one who is drunk, that ruins it for the sober one. Kids please act responsible, this is just the beginning of a new adventure in what we call life.

i thought thinking gets me in trouble

but actually saying what I think gets me in more trouble. Such as today when I was thinking about people in my life. Then I thought what if something tragic happened to me (or my family). Would many of these people that I don't see or talk to suddenly reappear in my life? Would they be sending me their prayers, concerns, condolenses, and well wishes? Okay this is where saying what I think gets me in trouble. I don't want these people to just suddenly reappear and say that they have missed me. Or to say we have been praying for you and all the other politically correct things to say to one who is having or dealing with a crisis. I want people in my life who say that they care about me, to come see and talk with me when I am alive and healthy. Not just show up at my funeral and mention something nice to my family. Not just show up at my home or hospital with thoughts and concerns when I am ill. Not to mention to a friend of mine that they heard what happened and would they send their thoughts along. No! Send them yourself. You know how to pick up a phone! You know where I live! I want these caring, loving people that miss me to be there in my life when I am alive and healthy. Sure everyone is busy! We all lose track of people we care about and love. We all grow and change. But still send a note, phone call, or email every so often just to keep in touch. It is something I am going to work on too! I don't want to just be a person who shows up during a crisis or trying time!

Where did the time go?

I cannot believe that many kids that I know, are now entering adulthood. This month they are graduating from high school. They will be entering the dog eat dog world that some of us know as life. Many will get jobs, go to school, and try to find themselves. Here is some comments that I came across that I thought would be appropriate for the grads;
Your presence is a present to the world.
You are unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.
Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You will make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.
Do not put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal and you prize.
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.
Do not take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot … goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Life’s treasure are people together.
Realize that it is never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have heart and hope and happiness.
Take the time to wish upon a star.
AND DO NOT EVER FORGET ….FOR EVEN A DAY HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE !

bragging rights

This past weekend Kota was in a chess tourney. He had five rounds, 30 minutes each. Well, he won them all and one of his opponents was the adult lady helping to run the thing. This might sound bad but one kid he beat in like three minutes, and I am saying that time on the high end. Good job Kota! So proud of you!

Rain, Rain, Go Away!

I know that we need some rain but this is getting a little ridiculous. Too bad it could not be convienent and rain at night while we sleep. This will be the best the lawns will look all summer!
Oh and by the way it is true what they say about asparagus! :)

Cakes by Kris

This was the cake we had for our Thursday School program. Doesn't it look too good to eat? But eat it we did and it was sooo good. Yummy! In case you cannot figure out what it is. It is a basket of flowers on its side spilling out! Absolutely beautiful:)

back among the blogging!

This past week flew by and I mean it! Okay Happy Mother's Day(belated) to all mommies and mommies to be.

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?" God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you." The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy." God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy." Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?" God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak." "And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?" God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray." "Who will protect me?" God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life." "But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore." "God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you." At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name." "You will simply call her, "Mom."

It is finished (for the moment)

Yesterday was the Thursday School Program and it was a huge success! Thanks to all the people who did such a wonderful job! Julie, you know I am talking about you! :) Of course all the others too. The cake was delish. Decorations and theme an absolute best, and I loved that we had the kids doing solos or taking part in the program. You know it has been a super long time since I have been to a TS program (when Kota was in it) I want to post of pic of decor and of cake but I can't since dummy me forgot the camera. I believe I was too busy trying to finish my memory scrap books for my kids. If someone got a pic or two to share send it to me please! Thanks again to all and it is soo cool that we will be doing a summer program too! I get to see the kids again woo-hoo!

Not blogging?

This week is our Thursday School program. Such a bittersweet experience I think. On one hand we are excited to see how the kids have grown over the past year and in the other sense we are sadden that another year has past, with our four year olds moving onto kindergarten. Therefore, in lieu of getting ready for the program I believe I won't really have time or energy to blog this week. So talk to you later!

oh and I do want to say thanks to the guys for preparing our dinner tonite. It was really yummy and I ate too much. Dessert was delish. Had to many choices and I probably tried one of each. (blush)

Not a boxing fan?

That's okay! However, most of you know my hubby is! Last night was the ultimate fight (well at least til the next one) with his favorite boxer. Golden boy, Oscar dela Hoya fought against Mayorga (sp?). I guess there was a ton of "smack" discussed before the match. All I know is that I am sooooo glad that Oscar won. There was one time he did not and my other half mourned for days about it ;) I watched it today with him to see how the match went, cause a bunch of the guys were over here last night making a bunch of racket! It wasn't too shabby. However, I believe that the Arturo Gatti and Mickey Ward blood baths were thee best!

for family who need more funeral info

http://www.legacy.com/Obituaries.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonId=17639610

Mexican Town's Fiesta
Friday May 5th, 2006
11 a.m.-11 p.m.
Saturday, May 6th, 2006
11 a.m.-11p.m.
food and live music and more













p.s. Good luck Bronson at those time trials! Praying for you!

In Memory of Helen Barrett my grandmother

Today my grandmother passed away. She fell asleep last night and did not wake up this morning. The best way to go in my opinion. She fought a long battle with cancer and she conquered it. This time old age got the best of her. She just had her birthday last friday.

Homesick by Mercy Me

You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then
I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again

And I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow

I've never been more homesick than now

Info about next week's ladies night

Are you ready to eat a meal prepared by some of the gentlemen of the congregation. In honor of Mother's Day the men will be preparing a dinner for us on Monday night. We are changing the time to 6 p.m. and I encourage you all to come. If you can't make it at 6 p.m. we will save you some food and you can come late. You won't want to miss the topic..... Taming the Tongue. Come and let us bare and share together!

Pray!

Mark11:24
Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

James 5:16Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.